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Trust is one of the most common ways people over accelerate a relationship<\/strong><\/h3><p>Dr. John and I define trust as a belief you have in someone based on what you <em>think<\/em> about what you\u00a0<em>know. <\/em>When we get to know someone, we develop a mental picture of them in our mind that is based on our experience with them and also from different &#8220;databases&#8221; \u00a0we have like: ideals, stereotypes, and associations. \u00a0When we&#8217;re getting to know someone new we use a\u00a0<em>little<\/em> factual knowledge based on experience and the rest of the picture is sketched from filling in the gaps from our databases.<\/p><p>This can easily lead to projecting a positive belief on someone we barely know and then feeling a strong sense of trust when it&#8217;s actually rather undeveloped.<\/p><h3><strong>2. An over-acceleration of trust can be a slippery slope<\/strong><\/h3><p>When we develop an over-accelerated trust picture we tend to interpret other people through that picture. \u00a0If our picture is positive, we tend to give more chances, give the benefit of the doubt, and fill in &#8220;unknowns&#8221; with positive possibilities.<\/p><p>This is why boundaries around trust early on in a relationship is so important and powerful.<\/p><h3><strong>3. Knowing takes \u00a0talk, time, and togetherness<\/strong><\/h3><p>Dr. John and I gave Lindsey a formula from\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/online.mylovethinks.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Head Meets Heart<\/a>\u00a0for how to get to know someone. The formula is talk + time + togetherness. We discussed how one of these alone cannot make up for the other. \u00a0And that concentrated amounts of time talking cannot make up for experiencing things together and observing the potential partner &#8220;in the wild&#8221;.<\/p><h3><strong>4. Create a dating game-plan before starting a new relationship<\/strong><\/h3><p>When you&#8217;re in the throes of a new relationship and feeling\u00a0<em>all the things<\/em> it can be challenging to develop a plan for boundaries, deal breakers, and compromises. \u00a0Dr. John and I encouraged Lindsey to develop her plan before entering a new relationship. \u00a0Here are some of the suggestions we gave her:<\/p><ul><li>Gather new information. Like reading Dr. John&#8217;s book, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/How-Avoid-Falling-Love-Jerk\/dp\/0071548424\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2WOPZ68J468IB&amp;keywords=how+to+avoid+falling+in+love+with+a+jerk&amp;qid=1646256369&amp;sprefix=how+to+avoid+falling%2Caps%2C202&amp;sr=8-1\"><em>How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk.<\/em><\/a><\/li><li>Write down all the red flags you want to pay attention to in the next relationship. What are some you&#8217;ve missed before?<\/li><li>Decide your boundaries around the sexual relationship before you&#8217;re in the heat of the moment.<\/li><li>Decide your boundaries around trusting. <strong><em>Hint: listen to learn about the 90 day probation period.<\/em><\/strong><\/li><li>Write down your deal breakers and when you will actually enforce them.<\/li><li>Learn to cut relationships off quicker if they are not as committed to finding love as you are. What is your cut-off? 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